Want some advice?

When it comes to success, my advice boils down to this...


First, let me tell you what its not.

❌ Its not starting your day at some ungodly hour. It works for some, but not all. Find your rhythm.

❌ Its not making sure you have all your ducks in a row before you launch. Whatever that means lol. Done is better than perfect. Personally, im not that granular. I like systems, i also like the freedom i give myself to deviate when necessary.

❌ Its not having a set of curated brand colors, website or logo. Fun fact, I've never had a logo. πŸ€·πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ And my "brand colors" have evolved as i have. Not opposed to any of this btw. It just hasn't been something i put a lot of focus on.

❌ Its not waiting until "the right time." Just let go of that, it doesn't exist. The past is gone. The future is not promised. All you really have is the power of now.

My biggest piece of advice is... Show up.

Show up for the dream
Show up for the calling
Show up for your people
Show up for yourself

Homework:

Answer these questions:

Showing up looks like asking the right questions. What has God you called to do at this moment?

Showing up looks like taking the right action. Not getting #fomo and hopping on every trend that pops up on your feed. What feels the most aligned to your mission?

Showing up looks like staying in your lane and owning it. You are uniquely called to be you. You have something special that no one else has. What is that?

All the stuff you want wants you back!!!!

But you're gonna have to participate in the process, my friend! Showing up is the prerequisite. So, I just wanted to remind you of that today.


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How’s Your Monday?

Dear Monday,


Thanks for having the word "mon" in you.

That's french for "mine".

In case you weren't aware, Monday, but it makes me think of you more as "my day", & frankly that sounds like a much more promising way to start the week.'

- Unknown

What a great reframe!

Yesterday, I had a minute to sit and process the amazingness that was the weekend. Was I tired? Sure. Was it worth it? Absolutely!

The @flourishmediaco conference/retreat was a success. Left the team much to think about with how we plan to move forward with it.

Thank you to everyone who participated, played a part, prayed for it, and paid to be there 😊. Tix to next year are already on sale and a little birdie told me they are half off! Get you one!

Church was great...and ended on time πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Got to have brunch with 2 of my favorite people on the planet.

Played Tennis and won 5 games in a row with my doubles partner @iamsoulua. Im telling you! I'm getting better!

Then I hopped on a plane. I'm taking some meetings out of town this week. Because this is what we do.

But today... Today is mine πŸ™‚

Make it yours too!

Happy Monday fam!


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The 5 Types of Imposter Syndrome…

πŸ›‘ Letting this keep you stuck!

5 Types of Imposter Syndrome + 5 Ways to Overcome Feeling Like a Fraud

*Edit: text says something only entrepreneurs experience. But what I said was 'isnt only something Entrepreneurs experience'

C'est la vie...the message still stands πŸ™‚

To that point, if you were the perfectionist type of imposter - this would drive you crazy lol πŸ€£ keep reading for the other 4 types.

As promised, youtube video is up πŸ€ΈπŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ€ΈπŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ€ΈπŸΎβ€β™€οΈ

Here's the thing, imposter syndrome is a very real thing, but the stories you tell yourself about 'why' you're an imposter are not!

And once you realize that, we can get to work!

Check out my latest YouTube Video to identify whether you're the Perfectionist, the Solo-type, the Genius, the Expert or the Superhero.

Then listen to the 5 ways you can overcome your imposter syndrome situation.


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How Do You Get Out of A 9 to 5 Job?

I don't publically talk about my finances. But...

There was a time I worked 2 jobs, 7 days a week because I had to.

I worked part-time jobs through school and student loans still paid for most of my education.

I have felt like there was more month than money and had to "budget" for things.

I listened to poverty mentality people judge the rich and force guilt on people who wanted more. And thought that I was supposed to think/feel the same.

I lived the middle class mindset of lack and limited supply.

And let me tell you, none of it felt good.

Ever! I don't recommend it lol.

Feeling shame for wanting to have more was not my vibe! But I didn't know how to get out of it, it was all I knew!

Enough was enough in 2015. I was fed up with the nonsense of pretending to not want what I wanted.

I was also fed up with struggling to make more money! Like seriously, how was I this educated and hard working to still be so far from where I wanted to be!

So I had a come to Jesus moment and made a decision to learn the Truth about money, currency, and cashflow!

Here's what I discovered:

  • Money is easy.
  • Money is everywhere.
  • Money is always circulating.
  • Money is always available.
The difficult part isn't the money, the difficult part is overcoming what we believe about it! Because your mindset about money will determine your experience with it.

For almost a half a decade I've used what I've learned to grow my 7-figure business and also to help my clients grow theirs. And they will all tell you, the mindset part is the most critical!

And after YEARS of people asking me for this, years of my own coach telling me it's time...its finally time!

Let's clean up your money mentality and get a Biblical and scientific understanding that has nothing to do being afraid to spend it, judged for wanting it, or saving cash in envelopes.

They say, money is a terrible master but a terrific servant. But if you don't know how to vibe with it, your experience will always be one where you're trying to chase it down and wonder why you can't seem to have it!

You should want more for yourself than that!


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Epic FAIL!!!

This was an Epic FAIL!

Tried to take these pictures on the 41st floor during a Miami “cold front” – which basically means 75 degrees and windy – and well, here’s the result. Basically unusable collateral that I am still using lol 🀣

Sometimes you plan and plan, you strategize to perfection, you throw your heart and soul into and it just doesn’t work out.

We’ve all been there. Especially in business. Every launch won’t be a success.

Every program won’t sell out.

What do you do when that happens?

Who is helping you handle the hiccups?

Ps…it’s great to have supportive friends/family, we are thankful for them, but if you’re always leaning on people who have never been where you’re trying to go, their support is only gonna go so far, my friend.

So what are the other options?

Do you freak out?

Is your default fear and anxiety?

Do you drown your sorrows in a tub of ice cream?

Whatever it is, don’t judge yourself. You’re allowed to be human. But….what I will offer up to you is the idea that there is a different way!

You don’t have to handle life alone. You don’t have to handle your business alone. You deserve to have someone there for you in the same way you are there for others.

  • If you’re stuck, get a coach.
  • If you’re procrastinating, get a coach.
  • If you’re confused, get a coach.
  • If you’re overwhelmed, get a coach.
  • If you’re overthinking it, get a coach.
  • If you’re not making money in your business, omg please get a coach!
  • If youre starting at the beginning, get a coach.
  • If you’re elevating to a new level, get a coach.

I could go on.

PS. Many people call themselves coaches, most of them are not. They are consultants or strategists. Keep that in mind as you are looking for the right one.

Know which one you need, and find that person! Everything won’t always work out, but you can avoid the residue of failure…it’s just an unnecessary step in the process if you ask me.

Cheers to you and your success!

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