Don’t Be Surprised If…

Something I tell my clients all the time...


Dont be surprised by your success. Be humble. Be grateful. But please please please dont be surprised. Here's what I mean...

Sometimes we say things like "omg i cant believe this happened to me!" or "i dont know how I got here" - really?! 'Cause I could have sworn 3 months ago this is exactly what you wanted and we had a whole conversation on what you were going to do so that it actually comes to pass... 🤔😂

No judgement lol - I have been there too. Definitely said those things. Thankfully I have a coach who caught it quickly and made me reframe.

Because saying you dont know how something so great manifested is disempowering.

It's actually one of the worst things you can do when you achieve a level of success and then tell yourself you don't know how it happened!

Success is not happenstance. Success is not random. Success is planned for, prayed for, etc.

Saying you don't know how it happened discounts everything you did leading up to it.

     You discount your prayers.
     You discount your intentions.
     You discount your work.

You wanted this. You asked for this. You showed up this! You put in time and effort for this! So how you gon' act like it just happened all will nilly?

So... Heres a quick lesson on the universal law of cause and effect.

YOU always operate at the level of cause, what you experience is the effect. In other words, you reap what you sow. In other other words, every action has an equal opposite reaction.

Every thought, every intention, every action that comes from you will ripple into something. You get to choose what that something is based on the said thoughts, actions, and intentions.

When you set your sights on achieving something great, and then you show up for it in the way you should... Lets not pretend we didn't play an active role in that process!

And here's why this is important - when you can get behind the belief that you are in fact co-creating your life, and you see it in real time, and you acknowledge it in real time then you learn to recognize just how powerful of a being you truly are. God did not make you by accident. He didnt give you the desire just 'cause. Trust it. ❤️


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The Power of Play

My secret superpower (and its probably one of yours too, so listen up!)

Play. Play is very powerful for me. And probably is for you too! Just gotta lean in.

According to Scientific American, fun and laughter release endorphins, happy hormones which counteract cortisol.

Basically, fun counteracts stress, one of the biggest inhibitors of cognitive performance.

For adults it helps you relax, be more creative, solve problems easier and more effectively, etc.

And for me personally, I find myself more in the flow when I am just having fun!

Things are easier.
I trust God more.
I trust myself more.
I manifest faster.
I help more people.
I make more money.
Opportunities pop up "out of nowhere"
I can rest in all the success.
And it all just feels good.

Yes! Its great to have a concrete strategy and to learn how to follow through and execute. Please, for the love of all things #entrepreneurial - execute!

Its commendable to be disciplined with your time and hustle when necessary. Because showing up is requires.

But honestly, if being in your business isnt fun, why are you even doing it?

Play is magnetic.
Play feels like alignment.
Play is indicative of flow.

Don't wind yourself up so tight from all of the ins and outs of your to-to list.

Step away from the laptop when technology isn't going your way. Take a nap if you can't slow your mind down enough to stop spiraling in doubt and negative self talk. Go for a walk, get some sun, play with puppies... Do whatever you need to do to find a point of access!

Live life to the full... Including the fullness of fun 🤸🏾‍♀️🤸🏾‍♀️🤸🏾‍♀️

Have some of that today, will ya?

#Affirmation: The more fun I have, the more successful I am.


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Seriously Stop…

"Stop entertaining a version of reality that you don't even want. Seriously. Stop! "


Said I to myself today 🤦🏾‍♀️ when all sorts of self sabbotaging things popped up in my head.

Y'all know I harp on the importance of mindset everyday of my life, and this is why!

We were born to create. Sometimes we forget how powerful of a faculty that is.. But our thoughts indeed become things. So you gotta watch it!

Errr... I gotta watch it!

I am so creative I can come up with all kinds of crazy story lines in my head! I mean... Its an oscar winning screen play, honestly!

Things I don't even want to happen have somehow taken up space rent free in my head 😱 - the work is to witness the thoughts without judgement and shift as fast as you can.

We never actually get to a place where we have just "arrived" and we never have to deal with the inner stuff ever again.

We all want that 😂 but it doesn't work that way.

I often tell my clients, at every point of expansion those subconscious beliefs start to come up. But thats actually good!

When you're aware you get to do the work to clean it up. Imagine how long those thoughts have been lingering in the ethers just sabbotaging stuff behind the scenes without you even knowing! Thats scary!

Once youre aware...you're aware. Awareness is half the battle.

So here is me, being very aware that there are still areas of my life I have fear and doubt around. There are still thoughts that pop up that make me say "whoa! Where did that come from?"

Here is also me acknowledging the power I have to change it! Because I know can.

And so can you! If you find yourself spiraling, go general, go back to the basics, focus on energetically getting behind the things you want and not the things you don't.

Be patient with yourself.

You're allowed to be in process.

Sending you so much love today! ❤️



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BEST Clients In The World!!!

When I tell you I have the best clients in the world...

I got this huge box in the mail and had no idea what could possibly be inside!

I opened it to find all these goodies!

First of all, they know me so well! Because this is my FAVORITE luggage color of all time!

I’ve actually been looking for a leather duffle just like this one and haven’t found one I liked. But I am obsessed with this! It’s perfect!!!

And all of the platform memorabilia is just the love on top.

I love love love my clients so much. They really do become like family to me! I feel so blessed to have each and every one of them in my life. And never take for granted how much they trust me in this season as I help them build their life’s dream!

So thank you to @drarlonda @themonicalove @shinesemcollins @scottie_wins @friendscallmefe @shannonlfelder @tammi_tarrelle @drkristenguillory @michellewfuqua @dr.lauravanderson_r2rlc @cwright375 @sherrellmarie1 @denisejonell @marlenebphillip @shavannahspeaks @pammccray1 @drjazzyfit @coach_lockmarie cameo and Chiquita @holyghost_homegirls @ky_crook_on_purpose

Love you all so much and my prayer is that your generosity returns to you a billion fold! 🤗🤗🤗🤗



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Reach Your Financial Freedom in 2021…

Stop sideyeing this!

I heard a wealthy man say that his goal in life is to acquire as much debt as possible.

How does that even make sense?

He is an investor and goes to banks and asks how much they will loan him.

Obvi, he has a system that creates ROI on the money he borrows, but you need to get this, and get this FAST - the mindset piece comes FIRST!

I am not advocating you go rack up debt. We know what the bible says. I am saying that we don’t have to judge the word like it’s the big bad. Even though many of us were told that.

We have listened to irresponsible financial teachers tell us that our priority should be to get out of debt as quickly as possible.

That if you want to be free from financial burden, you should get a 2nd job at Applebee's to pay it off as quickly as possible. Good Lord, I have so much to say about how TERRIBLE this advice is, but I will save that.

The truth is, being debt free is not true freedom if you haven’t fixed the underlying $ mindset problems of fear, lack, & scarcity.

Plus, I don’t trust ppl that gets richer off teaching you how to stay in a poor mindset with fear-based tactics that perpetuate an unhealthy, almost abusive relationship with money.

You can be debt free and terrified to spend money b/c you think it's going to run out. You can still have no idea how to save more than a few hundred dollars and you can be still clueless about how to stack yo’ paper to make more.

Debt, by itself is not inherently bad. You just decided to make installments. It doesn’t have to come with a side of judgment.

There is no such thing as good or bad debt. So stop assigning guilt and shame to it.

The debt isn’t the problem, the mindset around money is. Fix that FIRST! As a matter of fact, once your beliefs around $$$ shifts, debt usually shifts too!

Sometimes, $$$ starts to somehow appear "out of nowhere" cuz you shifted.

What if you believed God actually wanted you to be debt free AND have overflow (because He does).

What if you believed $ was fully available to you and you're allowed to have it?

Let's explore that!

Masterclass starts at 6:00 pm.


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