Your comfort zone is not a good benchmark.
📍When you're not used to being seen, finally doing things to get visible can feel like sleezy self promotion.
📍When you're not used to being assertive, being unapologetic about what you want in life can feel like aggression.
📍When you're not used to feeling confident, showing up for yourself can feel like arrogance.
📍When you're not used to being a priority, putting yourself first for once can feel selfish.
You see how comfort zone be benchmarks can be problematic?
You're designed to grow, expand, desire more, be more!
Don't let your comfort zone deceive you into staying small because you've been duped into believing that's humility and prudence.
Cheers to #wednesdaywisdom
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As far as success on social media goes…
People generally only post the highlight reel. But that's not always a bad thing.
People have such a judgement on it (you already know what I think about judgements) but I say - Flip it. Reframe it.
The highlight reel is actually what draws people in! When you see a movie trailer, they arent showing you behind the scenes of their long 18 hour long filming days, light and camera set ups, boring table reads, and production meetings. What a snooze fest!
They show you the stuff that makes you want to see the movie!
People often judge social media for being that way but like, as unpopular of an opinion as this may be…that’s marketing!
So show those highlights my friend! We all know life isn’t always roses and rainbows. But when it is, you are allowed to authentically celebrate that! Do the fun dances on TikTok. Go shopping and post your hauls. Show us those client testimonials. I’m here for all the fun stuff and to celebrate all your wins!
Live your best life and share it! Be inspirational with what you do. Be authentic with how you do it. #vibehigh and be unapologetic about it.
You never know who you could be motivating with your amazing self!
Ps - should you ever desire to share the bad days. That’s allowed too.
Cheers to #Monday
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Its not what you think...
I talk to people all the time who think "this is it!" like, everything has been leading up to this one BIG thing and that big thing is THE thing that changes everything.
Hate to be the bearer of bad news here but....nope.
Life doesn't work that way.
Its usually the micromoments, the small decisions, the things that seem like "not a big deal" that end up being the thing.
Maybe you decided to go left instead of right one day and missed a huge accident.
You decided to buy apples at the fresh market instead of whole foods and met the love of your life while buying berries.
You woke up at 2 am and decided to scroll through IG, saw a post of one of my online challenges and got curious. 3 months later, you're a whole new you! (i hear this one all the time)
On the quantum level, the reason why these small decisions - the ones you probably arent paying attention to all that much - are so impactful is because 1. You leaned into intuition and 2. You weren't attached to an outcome. Both of those allow for more ease and more flow.
These micro moments of decision making happen every single day. I like to believe they compound, and work symbiotically to get me to where i am destined to be.
And so it is with you...
Do your part.
Listen to intuition.
Show up for yourself.
Remember, God is always living, breathing and working in the details.
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