Epic FAIL!!!

This was an Epic FAIL!

Tried to take these pictures on the 41st floor during a Miami “cold front” – which basically means 75 degrees and windy – and well, here’s the result. Basically unusable collateral that I am still using lol 🤣

Sometimes you plan and plan, you strategize to perfection, you throw your heart and soul into and it just doesn’t work out.

We’ve all been there. Especially in business. Every launch won’t be a success.

Every program won’t sell out.

What do you do when that happens?

Who is helping you handle the hiccups?

Ps…it’s great to have supportive friends/family, we are thankful for them, but if you’re always leaning on people who have never been where you’re trying to go, their support is only gonna go so far, my friend.

So what are the other options?

Do you freak out?

Is your default fear and anxiety?

Do you drown your sorrows in a tub of ice cream?

Whatever it is, don’t judge yourself. You’re allowed to be human. But….what I will offer up to you is the idea that there is a different way!

You don’t have to handle life alone. You don’t have to handle your business alone. You deserve to have someone there for you in the same way you are there for others.

  • If you’re stuck, get a coach.
  • If you’re procrastinating, get a coach.
  • If you’re confused, get a coach.
  • If you’re overwhelmed, get a coach.
  • If you’re overthinking it, get a coach.
  • If you’re not making money in your business, omg please get a coach!
  • If youre starting at the beginning, get a coach.
  • If you’re elevating to a new level, get a coach.

I could go on.

PS. Many people call themselves coaches, most of them are not. They are consultants or strategists. Keep that in mind as you are looking for the right one.

Know which one you need, and find that person! Everything won’t always work out, but you can avoid the residue of failure…it’s just an unnecessary step in the process if you ask me.

Cheers to you and your success!

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Never thought I’d say this, but…

Never thought I'd say this, but...

I actually can't wait to be back on stage.

Don't get me wrong, I will choose having an online business above all else. I love coaching and creating courses. Its my jammy jam jam jam jam.

But in person connections just hit different, don't they?

If you were invited to speak somewhere, what's the first think you would speak about coming out of this pandemic?

I have already planned like 8 different talks! Lol 🤣🤣🤣

Ps...I'm asking because we are starting to plan the flourish media conference 2021. It may look different, but we always look for speakers to share the stage! We may want to invite you next!

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Steps in Living a Life I Love…

One of my secrets to living a life I love, and it's really simple!

Stop being available for things you don't want and be unapologetic about it.

I am not
available to be on hold with the cable company for 30 minutes...because who has time!?

I am not available to sit in the energy of negative people, complacent people, lazy people, etc. No judgement. Just not my vibe.

I am not available for 3 star hotels and economy class fights (learned these 2 the hard way 🤦🏾‍♀️).

I am not available for a miserable life. Period! Because you know what? I don't have to be!!! And neither do you.

I think 2020 has been like an extended new year's resolution season. Despite the crazy ride we have had here, I'm a forever optimistic #sagitarrius. So I'm always looking at a positive reframe.

If you aren't coming out of these last 6-8 months with more clarity on life, liberty and the pursuit of your own happiness, you did it wrong! But don't worry, there's still time.

1. Breathe. You can love yourself through this.

2. Evaluate. What are the areas in life where you have settled? Career? Relationships? Finances? Health? Lifestyle?

3. Look at those areas and decide what you will no longer be available for. Write it down. Ex - I will no longer be available to live a life less than my highest and best! Or I will no longer be available to these extra 10 lbs I packed on during quarantine. Or I will no longer be available to this person who treats me like crap.

4. While you're writing, take 5 minutes to write out what you are available for! What do you want? What do you feel called to? What's God saying you should do next?

5. Celebrate! I'm a big fan of clapping for yourself and celebrating along the way. Learn that habit and you will never need external validation ever again.

🥂 Cheers to you and the rest of 2020. We are in this together!

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