Steps in Living a Life I Love…

One of my secrets to living a life I love, and it's really simple!

Stop being available for things you don't want and be unapologetic about it.

I am not available to be on hold with the cable company for 30 minutes...because who has time!?

I am not available to sit in the energy of negative people, complacent people, lazy people, etc. No judgement. Just not my vibe.

I am not available for 3 star hotels and economy class fights (learned these 2 the hard way 🤦🏾‍♀️).

I am not available for a miserable life. Period! Because you know what? I don't have to be!!! And neither do you.

I think 2020 has been like an extended new year's resolution season. Despite the crazy ride we have had here, I'm a forever optimistic #sagitarrius. So I'm always looking at a positive reframe.

If you aren't coming out of these last 6-8 months with more clarity on life, liberty and the pursuit of your own happiness, you did it wrong! But don't worry, there's still time.

1. Breathe. You can love yourself through this.

2. Evaluate. What are the areas in life where you have settled? Career? Relationships? Finances? Health? Lifestyle?

3. Look at those areas and decide what you will no longer be available for. Write it down. Ex - I will no longer be available to live a life less than my highest and best! Or I will no longer be available to these extra 10 lbs I packed on during quarantine. Or I will no longer be available to this person who treats me like crap.

4. While you're writing, take 5 minutes to write out what you are available for! What do you want? What do you feel called to? What's God saying you should do next?

5. Celebrate! I'm a big fan of clapping for yourself and celebrating along the way. Learn that habit and you will never need external validation ever again.

🥂 Cheers to you and the rest of 2020. We are in this together!

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Let’s Talk About Expansion

The most powerful thing you have and how to activate this inner super power.

🤸🏾‍♀️Let's talk about expansion /ikˈspanSHən/: a thing formed by the enlargement, broadening, or development of something.
Something im ALWAYS talking to my clients about. If you're not expanding you're not growing. And if you're not growing, your dying. Expand! Expand often!

Take up ALL of your space in this world! Don't shrink back. Don't play small.

Live life to the fullest and to your highest calling! Whatever that is. It's way more fun!

Loving what I get to do and be a part of.

Especially THIS!!! Does anyone wanna even try to guess what this TV show is about?

I'd like to see what you're thinking hehehe.

There's still a lot that needs to happen to give this project wings to fly... But I'm So excited to bring this to the world with @micheldajohnson @tianniabarnes and @melodysholt.

So for now, we patiently wait for the next steps. Be there will be many 😂

BUT... God has always been faithful and generous and kind and loving. It's overwhelming really. And I am STILL surprised sometimes lol.

I'm so thankful 😊

And I'm also so thankful for all of you! For being invested in the journey with me! Thanks for sending me fun messages during the day as you watched the stories 🙂

Miles to go before we sleep, fam. Miles to go... ❤️

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