You’ve got the wrong idea…

Its not what you think...

I talk to people all the time who think "this is it!" like, everything has been leading up to this one BIG thing and that big thing is THE thing that changes everything.

Hate to be the bearer of bad news here but....nope.

Life doesn't work that way.

Its usually the micromoments, the small decisions, the things that seem like "not a big deal" that end up being the thing.

Maybe you decided to go left instead of right one day and missed a huge accident.

You decided to buy apples at the fresh market instead of whole foods and met the love of your life while buying berries.

You woke up at 2 am and decided to scroll through IG, saw a post of one of my online challenges and got curious. 3 months later, you're a whole new you! (i hear this one all the time)

On the quantum level, the reason why these small decisions - the ones you probably arent paying attention to all that much - are so impactful is because 1. You leaned into intuition and 2. You weren't attached to an outcome. Both of those allow for more ease and more flow.

These micro moments of decision making happen every single day. I like to believe they compound, and work symbiotically to get me to where i am destined to be.

And so it is with you...

Do your part.
Listen to intuition.
Show up for yourself.
Remember, God is always living, breathing and working in the details.


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Wanna hear something shocking?

Wanna hear something shocking? 😳

I leave money on the table all the time, and feel 100% ok about it. #realtalk

Why? Because alignment and integrity matter to me more than anything in business.

I dont have to say yes to everything to make money. And shiny object syndrome has never served me well.

🎈I like deciding how cash flows to me and through me.
🎈I enjoy knowing that I feel fully aligned with the business decisions I am making in the moment.
🎈And I trust that there is always more where that came from.

I don’t feel the need to hop on every online marketing trend (and there are always new ones). #fomo doesn’t dictate how I run my business.

And this is the reason I expose my clients to as many strategies, systems and possibilities is because I know that we are complex and dynamic humans. And we need to learn how to lean into that, trust that, leverage that when it comes to how we choose to make money in our businesses.

Saying yes to everything can be distracting at best, and paralyzing at its worst.

So learning to say no to certain options and opportunities is empowering and it lets you be intentional and more aware of what feels right. What’s mission driven.

You don't have to create courses, host retreats, start a YouTube channel, launch a podcast, work with 1:1 clients, get corporate contracts, become an influencer, invest in crypto currency, flip real estate, write a best seller, and go on a speaking tour at the same daggone time, or ever, honestly.

(although, if you wanted to... You absolutely could - I help multi-passionate clients navigate their multi-passionate desires all the time!)

But you do have to choose what feels in integrity for you, what feels aligned with you.

Get clear on that, hit the Do Not Disturb button on everything else πŸ€—


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The cookies are on the top shelf…

A mentor of mine from back in the day used to say this all the time!!! It stuck with me. It was a nod to living a life of excellence.

πŸ’―You're allowed to have high standards.

πŸ’―You're allowed to live at high levels of excellence. As a matter of fact, you should.

πŸ’―Love yourself enough to know you can have it and you deserve it. ALL!

And that word "deserve" can be very triggering. Because most of us (myself included) weren't taught that we deserve good things. Good things were a gift from God, and we should just be happy we get what we get. Don't say nothin. Don't ask for nothin. Don't rock the boat. Be content. Period. 🀒

It took me years to understand what God's grace, God's love and God's generosity really meant in my life. That's a whole story in and of itself - lemme know if you wanna hear.

Because once I got it... I got it! Shift happened!

Getting to choose how you want to live life is a gift - we all get it. Few exercise it. Its a conscious choice.

So...This is my encouragement to you to choose. Set a higher bar for yourself. Because a higher bar is available. Don't settle for mediocrity when limitless possibilities are available!

You can be happy.
You can have more.
You can live the life you want.

But you gotta become the person who knows that those things are meant for them...thats where the cookies are πŸ™‚

Shout out to @mauizziee for these cookies. They were a prop. I cant eat them, sadly. Yall know im allergic to gluten πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


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