You’ve got the wrong idea…

Its not what you think...

I talk to people all the time who think "this is it!" like, everything has been leading up to this one BIG thing and that big thing is THE thing that changes everything.

Hate to be the bearer of bad news here but....nope.

Life doesn't work that way.

Its usually the micromoments, the small decisions, the things that seem like "not a big deal" that end up being the thing.

Maybe you decided to go left instead of right one day and missed a huge accident.

You decided to buy apples at the fresh market instead of whole foods and met the love of your life while buying berries.

You woke up at 2 am and decided to scroll through IG, saw a post of one of my online challenges and got curious. 3 months later, you're a whole new you! (i hear this one all the time)

On the quantum level, the reason why these small decisions - the ones you probably arent paying attention to all that much - are so impactful is because 1. You leaned into intuition and 2. You weren't attached to an outcome. Both of those allow for more ease and more flow.

These micro moments of decision making happen every single day. I like to believe they compound, and work symbiotically to get me to where i am destined to be.

And so it is with you...

Do your part.
Listen to intuition.
Show up for yourself.
Remember, God is always living, breathing and working in the details.


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Seriously Stop…

"Stop entertaining a version of reality that you don't even want. Seriously. Stop! "


Said I to myself today 🤦🏾‍♀️ when all sorts of self sabbotaging things popped up in my head.

Y'all know I harp on the importance of mindset everyday of my life, and this is why!

We were born to create. Sometimes we forget how powerful of a faculty that is.. But our thoughts indeed become things. So you gotta watch it!

Errr... I gotta watch it!

I am so creative I can come up with all kinds of crazy story lines in my head! I mean... Its an oscar winning screen play, honestly!

Things I don't even want to happen have somehow taken up space rent free in my head 😱 - the work is to witness the thoughts without judgement and shift as fast as you can.

We never actually get to a place where we have just "arrived" and we never have to deal with the inner stuff ever again.

We all want that 😂 but it doesn't work that way.

I often tell my clients, at every point of expansion those subconscious beliefs start to come up. But thats actually good!

When you're aware you get to do the work to clean it up. Imagine how long those thoughts have been lingering in the ethers just sabbotaging stuff behind the scenes without you even knowing! Thats scary!

Once youre aware...you're aware. Awareness is half the battle.

So here is me, being very aware that there are still areas of my life I have fear and doubt around. There are still thoughts that pop up that make me say "whoa! Where did that come from?"

Here is also me acknowledging the power I have to change it! Because I know can.

And so can you! If you find yourself spiraling, go general, go back to the basics, focus on energetically getting behind the things you want and not the things you don't.

Be patient with yourself.

You're allowed to be in process.

Sending you so much love today! ❤️



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When Did You Learn To Settle?

Who first told you couldn't have it all?


When did you learn to settle?

What desires have you tabled because someone, somewhere told you they were "unrealistic" - whatever that means smh?

How did you come to believe that only some people get to be "lucky" and you don't?

All questions worth sitting with today...unlock the subconscious stuff thats been holding you back. A lot of the times you will realize they were narratives not of your own doing, but storylines you decided to accept along the way because of others around you.

Release. Forgive. Choose something else.

Let's start with this: you are a powerful force in this world, destined to do good, and designed with image bearing co-creative abilities.

Its time you come back to that truth.

This March as we celebrate #womenshistorymonth let's not forget what part you are playing in history right now!

The ripple effect of your impact can reach farther than you ever even dreamed, but not if you're living a life full of limits someone placed you at some point in time.

This month I am working on putting together something thats going to help you be inspired to expand!

Hint 1: it involves some of my favorite people (my most brilliant of clients)

Hint 2: its free.

Get ready!!!!!

Everyone on my email list will get first dibs. Be sure you're on that and looking out for the email mid-month.


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Want some advice?

When it comes to success, my advice boils down to this...


First, let me tell you what its not.

❌ Its not starting your day at some ungodly hour. It works for some, but not all. Find your rhythm.

❌ Its not making sure you have all your ducks in a row before you launch. Whatever that means lol. Done is better than perfect. Personally, im not that granular. I like systems, i also like the freedom i give myself to deviate when necessary.

❌ Its not having a set of curated brand colors, website or logo. Fun fact, I've never had a logo. 🤷🏾‍♀️ And my "brand colors" have evolved as i have. Not opposed to any of this btw. It just hasn't been something i put a lot of focus on.

❌ Its not waiting until "the right time." Just let go of that, it doesn't exist. The past is gone. The future is not promised. All you really have is the power of now.

My biggest piece of advice is... Show up.

Show up for the dream
Show up for the calling
Show up for your people
Show up for yourself

Homework:

Answer these questions:

Showing up looks like asking the right questions. What has God you called to do at this moment?

Showing up looks like taking the right action. Not getting #fomo and hopping on every trend that pops up on your feed. What feels the most aligned to your mission?

Showing up looks like staying in your lane and owning it. You are uniquely called to be you. You have something special that no one else has. What is that?

All the stuff you want wants you back!!!!

But you're gonna have to participate in the process, my friend! Showing up is the prerequisite. So, I just wanted to remind you of that today.


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