by Admin | Mar 9, 2021 | BLOG, Entrepreneur, Lifestyle, Success Tips
Who first told you couldn't have it all?
When did you learn to settle?
What desires have you tabled because someone, somewhere told you they were "unrealistic" - whatever that means smh?
How did you come to believe that only some people get to be "lucky" and you don't?
All questions worth sitting with today...unlock the subconscious stuff thats been holding you back. A lot of the times you will realize they were narratives not of your own doing, but storylines you decided to accept along the way because of others around you.
Release. Forgive. Choose something else.
Let's start with this: you are a powerful force in this world, destined to do good, and designed with image bearing co-creative abilities.
Its time you come back to that truth.
This March as we celebrate #womenshistorymonth let's not forget what part you are playing in history right now!
The ripple effect of your impact can reach farther than you ever even dreamed, but not if you're living a life full of limits someone placed you at some point in time.
This month I am working on putting together something thats going to help you be inspired to expand!
Hint 1: it involves some of my favorite people (my most brilliant of clients)
Hint 2: its free.
Everyone on my email list will get first dibs. Be sure you're on that and looking out for the email mid-month.
by Admin | Feb 2, 2021 | BLOG, Entrepreneur, Lifestyle, Success Tips
Everyone buys into the lie.
What lie you ask?
The lie that it has to be hard.
Success is hard.
Money is hard.
Building a business is hard.
Relationships are hard.
Life is hard.
And because we adopt that narrative, we self-sabbotage every step of the way to the goal. We sweat the small stuff. We procrastinate. We get caught up in things that are really none of our business and generally out of our control. We stress. We worry. We rinse. We repeat.
We create a cycle that edifies the internal dialogue, so we experience it over and over again because your ego refuses to be wrong. You won't betray your own core beliefs... If you decide its going to be hard, it absolutely will be!
But what if there was another way?
I'd like to offer up an alternative...
Its only hard if you think it is. Shocker. I know.
I have found that most things in life arent actually that hard. I am. I'm fighting myself 99% of the time. I'm in my own head. I'm talking myself out of things I'm afraid to face. I'm worrying about the wrong things at the wrong time. Its me. I am hard. So... Life reflects that right back.
Everything and everyone is you pushed out.
Yes, there will be challenges. But your "response ability" is full of choices. Thoughts become things so stop choosing thoughts that make it harder than it needs to be.
Example: I used to think launching courses needed to come with all this added stress and sleepless nights. Thats what "they" all say! Until one day in 2017 I decided I didn't want to do that. Ease and flow was also a choice. And it was way better! Quick shift. Different experience entirely.
Flip the script on yourself. Make it fun. Because yes...it all gets to be fun - if you decide thats what you want.
And when the going gets tough... Theres God's grace to fill in all the gaps I create (more on that tomorrow).